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Finding Fuel: A Workshop for Educators

Join Open Circle Trainer Betsy Nordell, Ed.D., for this upcoming webinar hosted by the Wellesley Centers for Women!

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This webinar's focus is educator wellbeing. Now more than ever, we need to honor the complexity of educational work and share ideas for self-renewal. Since there is no one "right" way, during this 1-hour workshop you will learn how other educators cultivate the strength to persist in this field and create personalized tools for your own experimentation. With that in mind, please bring 6 sheets of paper and have a pencil or pen handy. The ideas offered arise from Dr. Betsy Nordell's recently published book Avoiding Burnout: How Exemplary Teachers Find Fuel and Cultivate Success.

THE74: An Educator’s View

"The Empathy & Compassion Biden Talks About Are SEL Skills Every Child Should Have. How Teachers Can Help Students Learn Them" Teachers should take Biden’s speech about "compassion, empathy and concern” as a call to action, to implement in our classrooms the values he’s talking about on the national stage

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Focusing on student's feeling

HECHINGER REPORT: Teachers will need to focus more on how students are feeling in these tough times Confronting emotions around Covid-19 and systemic racism matters more than ever.

In this opinion piece published in the Hechinger Report, Open Circle's Director, Kamilah Drummond-Forrester discusses how amid academic concerns, supporting students’ mental and emotional health became the primary focus for some teachers.

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EDSURGE: The Pandemic Has Revealed...

What Really Matters in Education (Spoiler: It’s Not Tests). Kamilah Drummond-Forrester, Director of Open Circle writes, "The interconnectedness of schools and families has been laid bare this past year, and we now understand how significant that partnership is."

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How to Talk to Kids About Coronavirus

March 6, 2020
By Kamilah Drummond-Forrester, Director of Open Circle

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As the mother of four children ranging in age from 5 to 17, I think I’ve heard it all when it comes to the coronavirus COVID-19 every rumor and misunderstanding that gets shared at school and on social media about where it came from and how it spreads. In gently redirecting my children toward the truth--and helping them manage their well-founded anxiety--I’ve leaned on my knowledge of social and emotional learning (SEL).

As the director of Open Circle, an evidence-based SEL program for school-age children, I know that it’s important to help kids develop skills to recognize and manage their emotions. It’s also important for them to feel safe and cared for, especially in the midst of a crisis. Effective SEL strengthens our ability to understand, name, and manage our emotions all while building healthy relationships with others that foster increased empathy and community.

Here are a few things I’ve kept in mind while having conversations with my children about COVID-19, which might be helpful to anyone who has similar conversations with kids in their lives--whether their families or those they interact with in a professional capacity.

Children take their emotional cues from adults.

Kids look to us for how to react to a crisis, so it’s critical that we mind our words and actions when in their presence. We should convey calm and compassion, and focus on the facts available. Familiarizing ourselves with what’s known about COVID-19 and how it spreads allows us to ensure we’re conveying factual information to the children around us. Displaying an overly anxious or fearful affect is “contagious,” and causes children, in turn, to become overly anxious and fearful. We need to remain calm and reassuring as much as possible--and to lean on the other adults within our communities when we need to share our own fears and concerns.

“Othering” behavior and speech must be interrupted.

An unfortunate by-product of this scare has been the othering of Asian American communities, which has led many Chinese restaurants and businesses to lose customers. I’ve heard children say things like “Chinese people caused this” or other disparaging remarks. It’s important for adults to immediately and firmly interrupt these types of comments and othering behavior.

Calm breathing and mindful pauses can help.

At Open Circle, one of the threads woven throughout our curriculum is calm breathing and mindfulness. Teaching children to take three slow, deep breaths or a one-minute mindful pause throughout the day helps them develop the tools to cope when they’re feeling anxious.

It’s OK to say you don’t know.

None of us have all the answers to questions children may ask about COVID-19, and that’s OK. Sometimes these questions do have an answer, and we can find it for them by utilizing the resources available to us: our doctors, school nurses, reputable online sources. Some questions simply can’t be answered with any definitiveness. In those cases, all we can do is help children understand that life comes with gray areas, and not all questions have a straightforward answer. What’s most important is for them to understand that the adults in their lives--whether at school or at home--will be there to protect and assist them, no matter what. As Mr. Rogers’ mother used to say, when there is a crisis, “look for the helpers.” Knowing that there will always be helpers may go a long way toward relieving children’s worry.

We have the following teacher resources that can be used to help children deal with traumatic events or sensitive topics.


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